Paying Homage

Wow, 30 years old. Starting my birthday right, feeling like it is so fitting to pay homage to the things that made me who I am today and got me to this point in life pretty unscathed.

First, my parents have always been my number one fans. They are beautiful human beings who taught me how to love, respect and be true to myself always. We have always had an open and honest relationship and for that, I am forever grateful.

My family. From my pesky yet adorable younger brother who forever taught me how to deal with the male species – to my supportive and fiercely independent, free-thinking, brave and remarkable grandparents. My team of ‘always there for you’ aunts and uncles. My cousins who were my first friends and our friends who have always been like family.

My hubby. Your steadfast determination and ability to set a goal for yourself and unrelenting determination to get us to that goal I have always admired. You were first and always my best friend and our love has stood up to some unique challenges. Thanks for always having that vision.

My babies (human & canine). You made me mommy and taught me what it means to love, you’re my heart outside of my body. You taught me how to give up control ‘as much as I can’ and let the forces of nature and God’s Plan or whatever you believe in that controls ‘the dices of life,’ take its course.

My faith. You have helped me through always. When I have prayed for an answer or need peace of mind you are there. You are unwavering and while I can be selfish, you never turn your back on me.

My culture. It’s loud and a proud but has always given me a sense of purpose and sense of being a part of a greater community – something I feel is so important in helping a person feel like ‘they belong.’

My home. You have always embraced me with a sense of comfort and protection and have watched over me and my family. From the country, I call home (immigrant family & forever grateful), to the town we live in, to the four walls we call our house.

Thank you. If you know me or you don’t know me, just know that I am a very thankful person.

Cheers to 30!